Some people just can’t seem to handle life. When things get difficult they seem to turn against the people they love and the world around them instead of making up their minds that they can change things. They seem to give up and don’t want to try. It is a rather stupid way to go about life, because sitting around complaining doesn’t help matters. It only makes them worse.
This kind of self destructive behavior happens all the time in families and then people wonder why their marriages fail. You have to have a mind set that say’s “hey, I am going to fix it, no matter what it takes”. You have to get up every morning and tell yourself this. You have to tell yourself that you can do it and be determined to be happy.